Friday, April 16, 2010

SLAPPED Vlog 3 April 16, 2010

SLAPPED Vlog 3 April 16, 2010 - Lady Zombie discusses the late Peter Steele and the relationships between Dominants and submissives.


Jenfuhh said...

Well said, LZ. What about those Dom/ sub couples who are ALSO COUPLES, live together, sometimes it IS hard to differentiate the line where D/s ends and the "couple" begins. More so in a "love" relationship.

I know my Dominant is also, my boyfriend and sometimes its hard to be seamless in that relationship. Especially after you've been together for a while.

Any comments on that?

Jen aka Jenicide1971

Lady Zombie said...

Hello Jen,

There really can't be a seamless line, and the best way to avoid any misunderstands has to be a clear and open line of communication between the Top and the bottom, especially in a relationship where love is a major factor.

Also, is it 24/7, or is it just play in the bedroom?

I find that most subs who are in 24/7 D/s relationships find that most of their troubles lie in their fear of communicating these same concerns to their Master/Mistress/Lover/Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Wife/Husband... or whatever he case may be.