Friday the 13th: Paid or Pain - The BDSM Comedy Show!

Host Jay Nog lets you live the ultimate audience fantasy - punishing bad comedy! Four young comedians take the stage and your audience vote decides if they get PAID for a good set or PAIN for a bad set. The Pain is delivered by Professional Dominatrix Lady Zombie while our expert panel of veteran comedians offer their commentary. Plus audience participation games, fun and prizes! Recorded LIVE for SiriusXM!

Friday, October 13th Showtime 11:30pm
New York Comedy Club
$25 (Use code PAIN for a discount at checkout)

For tickets: https://newyorkcomedyclub.com/events/paid-or-pain-2017-10-13 

Kink 'n' Draw - Back to Hogwarts!

On Tuesday, September 12th, we return to Lucky on B with the popular sketching & sipping event: Kink 'n' Draw! Everyone is going back to school, so September will be our "Back to Hogwarts" edition!

RSVP HERE: https://www.facebook.com/events/920080354810513/

Join your hostess, Lady Zombie - in her sexy Slytherin House uniform - for another exciting evening of cocktail fueled artistic expression and socializing. Bring your sketch pad, pencils, and a friend, have a drink, and draw a delightful live model (Cambre) in an S&M inspired tableau. 

There is no charge for this event but a recommended donation to the model is strongly encouraged. Free porn DVD giveaways with each donation AND with each fancy cocktail!

7PM - Welcome
7:30PM - Draw
9PM - Mingle
Minimum Donation: $5

DRINK SPECIALS - The Magic Potion 🔮 $5

🔪 Lady Zombie's Page: http://facebook.com/LadyZombieInfo
🔪 Lucky's Page: http://facebook.com/luckyonb
🔪 Cambre's Page: http://www.facebook.com/Cambre.Alternative.Beauty

#KinkNDraw #DrinkAndDraw #LadyZombie #LuckyOnB #Cambre #BackToHogwarts 

Lady Zombie presents "The Black Widow" featuring Obae Hart (1.16.15)

Lady Zombie presents "The Black Widow" featuring Obae Hart at The Paper Box ~Viewer Discretion Advised~ #NSFW #BDSM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2t1G-A5qz6E

Lady Zombie's October Calendar

Lady Zombie & her human canvas: Obae Hart (Candle Wax / Live Art)

Watch this! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vxVP1SpEl40 Obae Hart becomes Lady Zombie's human flesh canvas as her body is covered in a thick layer of candle wax in this live fetish art installation filmed by Chris Carr (Eat the Cake NYC - Brooklyn Wildlife) ---Not Safe for Work--- Share, Like on YouTube, Subscribe to LZ's channel!)

Lady Zombie & Heidee Nytes Perform at The Trash Bar - Jack O Slasher Rel...

If you missed my #BDSM show with Heidee Nytes at the Jack 'O' Slasher release party, here it is! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G58gYGhJSKQ (The link to the unedited, kinky madness is in the video description - adults only!)

Lady Zombie at Mia Tyler's "KINK" Gallery Expo, Art Basel Miami 12.6.13

New Video! Lady Zombie at Mia Tyler's "KINK" Gallery Expo, Art Basel Miami 12.6.13 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DBeN22WIWsk

Lady Zombie's Upcoming Events!

Sex & Politics - Heather Height interviews Lady Zombie (WBCR) 10.24.13

Heather Height interviews Lady Zombie on Brooklyn College Radio during her "Sex Spot" segment on the weekly show, Sex & Politics. http://youtu.be/WbWOoefOZsc We discuss BDSM, burlesque, fetish, therianthropes, and so much more. Phil Rosenberg and David Harris interject with some witty (and probing - giggity) comments throughout. While listening, enjoy a sexy slideshow of photos of Heather and Lady Zombie!

Lady Zombie sings "Twilight Zone" at Kitty Nights (Ali Fangsmith's Spankings)

Lady Zombie is the special guest host at The Kitty Nights Halloween Spooktacular! She sings her tribute to The Manhattan Transfers "Twilight Zone, Twilight Tone" and then gives Ali Fangsmith his birthday spankings! http://youtu.be/U-SE9m-0Aol

Lady Zombie listed in the Worldwide Mistress Guide

I’ve been listed in on the Daily Domination News section of the World Wide Mistress Guide!

http://www.worldwidemistressguide.com/NewsReviews/lady-zombie-new-york-mistress/

I am Lady Zombie – an intense, curvy, intellectual and vicious Goddess / Dominatrix of New York City. I am a lifestyle Dominant, and I have practiced Domination/Fantasy Fetish /Roleplay/BDSM professionally for over 8 years.

When you contact ME, we will discuss your fantasies, fetishes and experience so that I can determine what your interests are and the best type of session for you. I may ask you for references. This is not to invade your privacy, but to protect myself. I am a very demanding MISTRESS. I am cruel and compassionate. I desire and expect MY every wish to be fulfilled. I will push your limits (within reason), because I want you to explore the depths of your kink with ME.

Who should contact ME: Masochists, pain sluts, sissies, kinksters, bondage enthusiasts, true submissives, Goddess worshipers, foot fetishists, puppies, maids, ashtrays, mummies, submissive couples, couples interested in a Kink Facilitator, open-minded individuals curious about pushing their limits, and many more! Novices are welcome. I am NEVER a submissive. Do NOT ask for this. Our playtime will be safe, sane and consensual. I expect for us both to enjoy our time together.

Some of MY areas of expertise include: SISSY TRAINING (I am all WOMAN, a voluptuous authoritarian, and I will teach you to be a real LADY, the best sissy bitch you can be!); FOOT FETISHES (foot worship, shoe & boot worship, extreme smelly foot worship/sniffing, trampling, etc.); CORPORAL PUNISHMENT (you will know fear and punishment at MY hands, your will beg ME for mercy… an unforgettable experience at the hands of a skilled MISTRESS!); S&M ROLE PLAY (I can be the cop, the doctor/nurse, the school teacher, the tyrant, the mother, the vampire, the girl next door, the evil secretary and many more); BONDAGE (ropes, mummification, cuffs, new & interesting ties, predicament bondage); WAX PLAY, FLOGGING, SPANKINGS and MANY MORE kinds of S&M PLAY as well. If your interest is not listed here, contact ME to discuss your particular fetish or session interest.

http://www.ladyzombie.com/

Lady Zombie VS Hurricane Sandy (NEW VIDEO)

NEW VIDEO!

Lady Zombie VERSUS Hurricane Sandy, featuring the pin-up Starlet Scarlett, filmed at Otto's Shrunken Head in New York City for Darren Deicide's event, "A Night of Music, Magic & Mischief!"

11.10.12 - Lady Zombie versus Hurricane Sandy is a comedic, theatrical fetish performance featuring Pin-Up Starlet 'Scarlett'. They tell a story that asks a question, "What would YOU do to Hurricane Sandy if she were a real person?" See the dramatic ending! Presented at Darren Deicide's event, "A Night of Music, Magic & Mischief" at Otto's Shrunken Head in New York City. MATURE VIEWERS ONLY, PLEASE - IT'S ALL IN GOOD FUN!

Featuring Music by:
~The Temptations "I've Got Sunshine"
~Slayer "Reign in Blood"
~The Scorpions "Rock You Like a Hurricane"
~The Beatles "Here Comes the Sun"

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Visit [http://www.LadyZombie.com] currently featuring FREE membership and add her on Facebook [http://www.Facebook.com/LadyZombieInfo] to stay on top of all the events she is hosting, projects, performances & more!

3 Lessons we can all learn from a Dominatrix

3 Lessons We Can All Learn from a Dominatrix: Interview with Lady Zombie by Veralyn Media for the Bedsider.org blog. September 2012 in NYC. http://youtu.be/yDw-bNXyA9o

F-me Pumps and 50 Shades: How "Normal" is BDSM?

@LadyZombie interviewed by@veralynmedia F-me Pumps and 50 Shades: How "Normal" is BDSM? http://youtu.be/LB3-Vx_yDOE  #50shades #LadyZombie

Lady Zombie disciplines Khaos on his birthday (9.21.11)

The Big 7" Release

Darren Deicide and Lady Zombie have an awesome time on NAUGHT BITS RADIO to talk about Darren's next Record release and the party at Otto's Shrunken Head, June 9th... as well as sex. And zombies. 
RSVP HERE:  http://www.facebook.com/events/197644000344679/

New Performance Videos!!!

I can’t wait to see you all at some of the upcoming events we have planned for you (all the details in the previous blog), and I’m sorry that we’ll miss P.O.V., but please go anyway and show your continued support! Here are the links to several awesome new videos of performances that I haven’t had the chance to share with you yet! There are many others that are still being edited which I hope to send out to you soon.

Remember to subscribe to my YouTube (http://youtube.com/user/LadyZombie666) for instant notifications on uploads! Video LIKES and COMMENTS are appreciated and encouraged. Please make sure all feedback is polite - comments are moderated. 

Limousine Syndrome "Sex as a Weapon" Featuring Lady Zombie (Live in NYC 4.9.11)
Limousine Syndrome LIVE at Stone Tavern in Whitestone, New York. "Sex As A Weapon" featuring: Lady Zombie. Thank you to everyone who was there showing love, incredible support, and getting drunk with us!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=al27jvmlPd4 

Lady Zombie Performs “Caramel” with Ali Fangsmith at Nurse Bettie (8.31.11)
Lady Zombie performs her Suzanne Vega tribute "Caramel" with Ali Fangsmith at the weekly NYC burlesque event: Honi Harlow presents NURSE BETTIE "Spanking the Lower East Side." No matter what happens, the show must go on! ;-)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o_TsKin36fg

Lady Zombie Performs “Caramel” at Harlow’s Hide-a-way (9.11.11)
Lady Zombie performs her Suzanne Vega tribute "Caramel" at the monthly NYC burlesque event (2nd Sundays at Ella Lounge): "Harlow's Hide-a-way."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gT5w-f0tmi4

Lady Zombie & Venus Pain Present: Geisha Fetish (Featuring Jazmin) 9.16.11
Lady Zombie and Venus Pain perform "Geisha Fetish" Featuring Jazmin - a Burlesque/S&M crossover stage show that tells the story of two Geisha being worshiped by a seductive "schoolgirl" and then doing battle to see who claims her. See the dramatic ending! Presented at the monthly themed fetish party Subspace held at Bento Burger, NYC's futuristic Asian Roadhouse.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DB_9VLJPlmY

7 S&M Party Etiquette Tips - An Article By Lady Zombie

7 S&M Party Etiquette Tips

September 10th, 2011  |  by Lady Zombie |  Published in Blog, Featured, To Do List  |  5 Comments

BY LADY ZOMBIE:


By now we’ve all heard Rihanna “S&M” hit:

Cause I may be bad- But I’m perfectly good at it… Sex in the air- I don’t care- I love the smell of it… Sticks and stones… May break my bones… But chains and whips excite me…

Well has it piqued your curiosity? Enough to attend a local S&M party?

As a member of the S&M (SadoMasochism) scene in the New York City tri-state area for several years, I have attended hundreds of fetish/BDSM themed parties and events, hosted many and performed at several as well. These gatherings often have their own set of rules based on the venue management, the party producers and the type of crowd in attendance. But, no matter where the party is thrown and who the attendees may be, standard S&M party etiquette is always supposed to be taken into account and respected. So though it may be the first party you attend, even lifetime players follow basic S&M Party Etiquette.

1. Moderate the amount of alcohol you consume: One of the foremost rules of BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Submission, and Masochism) is to always be safe, sane and consensual. Alcohol can obviously make some individuals careless, and it is important to keep your safety and the safety of others at heart. For example, if you are a submissive and you are into a degree of pain, you might partake in a flogging at an S&M event. If you have had too much to drink, you might not be able to realize it is time to give your Dominant the safety word. Just the opposite applies as well… if you are a Dominant who has had too much to drink, you can severely injure your submissive when engaging in fetish play. If you’ve had too much to drink, have a friend escort you home. Illegal or prescription drugs should never be used when engaging in S&M play or attending a scene party.

2. Be polite at all times: Don’t interrupt people or couples who are engaging in S&M play. Unless it is an interactive stage show, many individuals might take offense to an interruption of any kind, whether it is questions, comments, or vulgar statements regarding the type of play taking place. Simply wait until their “scene” is over before approaching. A public scene is an invitation to watch, not to join in or volunteer. Also, it is wise to ask the Dominant for permission to speak with the submissive in order to establish possible “ownership” or lack thereof. Respect the space the event is held in, and definitely respect all the guests.

3. Stay in your lane: A collared submissive should not be approached to play under any circumstances. More often than not, this means that they are in attendance with their Owner. If a collared submissive approaches you, it is wise to ask if they are owned. They may just be wearing a collar in advance preparation for a scene they desire to occur with a Dominant they meet on premises, or even as a fashion statement. In any event, it is always wise to be sure.

4. Ask before you touch: Never use someone’s property without asking permission first! Although an S&M event is a public gathering for like-minded individuals, that doesn’t mean we all like to share. This applies to fetish toys & equipment (floggers, ropes, cuffs, paddles, blindfolds, etc.) as well as people (submissives, slaves, etc.). A powerful Dominant may be giving an OTK (over the knee) spanking to a lovely submissive at the fetish event you are attending. That does not give anyone the right to also spank this person once their scene is over. You must always ask permission. It also doesn’t hurt to get to know someone before engaging in S&M play. Trust is something that is established over time. Be courteous as well. No means no, and if someone tells you no, there’s no reason to be rude about it.

5. Dress the part: When attending a Fetish Event or S&M Play Party, it helps if you dress in play-appropriate attire. Jeans and sneakers are usually unacceptable. If you don’t have fetish clothing (leather, rubber, latex, lace, PVC, vinyl, stilettos, thigh-highs, lingerie, corsets, theme attire: nurse/nun/school teacher), you can, at the very least, dress nicely and sexy in all black. But, I have to admit, the more fetish and S&M themed clothing being worn at an event, the better the energy in the room!

6. Know what you’re getting into: Most S&M clubs and private parties are generally composed of at least two spaces – one for socializing and another for play. Make a note of which is which when you enter the space and try to respect these boundaries. You might experience or witness, at an S&M event, many things you have never expected, and either you will deal with these things well and learn, or you won’t. Some examples are: a Dominant verbally humiliating his or her submissive, same sex play partners, or a submissive crying during a rough punishment scene. These things are normal at an S&M play party. If you become too disturbed by this, simply stop watching. There are things you’re into that others may not be, and vice versa. It is good to come into a play party with an open mind, too.

7. Be Discreet: Discretion is incredibly important in the BDSM community. If you become involved in this lifestyle, it is up to you to protect those involved. Many individuals that attend S&M events lead very “vanilla” lives. If you notice one of these people in the street outside of an S&M event, it is wise not to approach them until you know it is alright with the other person to discuss the scene with his/her friends and associates. Be discrete. Usually you will realize it if they make an effort not to be noticed, and it is your job to respect their privacy and confidentiality.

This may seem like a lot to swallow, and it’s also on the serious side of my usual writing style. I simply feel that anyone who decides to go play in public and join the S&M community needs to be aware of common etiquette. An S&M play party can be incredibly fun and exhilarating, and there is no need to be afraid about attending. Some things you can only learn through experience.

Now that you have gone through the basics with me, it might be time for you to slip on the leather, dust off your ball gag, and hit the clubs with me! See you in the dungeon area, my sexxxy kinksters!

Note: First published in 2009 in Lady Zombie’s column “Diary of a Mistress” for Club Double D. Some changes have been made to the original version.

Lady Zombie is a Mistress of All Trades based in the concrete jungle of New York City. A visual and performance artist/entertainer, she has established herself internationally as a published fetish/alternative model and writer, the lead singer/lyricist of the band Deviant Trust and a solo artist, an independent film actress, a practicing dominatrix and also the hostess/producer of several Rock & Roll, Gothic and S&M events in the New York City tri-state area.

New Video: Lady Zombie & Kim De'Ville present "WAR INTERROGATION"

July 28, 2011 held at Karma Lounge in New York City was the monthly fetish night Personal Orgasm View (P.O.V.) and the theme was "Military Fetish." Lady Zombie & Kim De'Ville present "WAR INTERROGATION" for the guests, a Military themed fetish performance art display. Mistress Maliice makes an appearance during this darling display as well.

SENSITIVE VIEWERS are advised not to watch this video. It is not intended to insult or upset, merely to entertain and pay homage to S&M as well as the fearsome war practices in the world over the centuries.

Featuring Music by:
~ And One "Military Fashion Show"
~ :Wumpscut: "War"

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Listen to the Podcast - Lady Zombie is interviewed on NAUGHTY BITS

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If you're sensitive, do NOT listen to this.



Heather and Aden welcome Dominatrix and model Lady Zombie. We discuss the details of her business, her personal fetishes, and exploiting the comedy of erotic human foibles. Entailed in the conversation is the necessary information to get in contact with Lady Zombie. Join the fun, as Heather and Aden dip their toes into the dungeon of S&M.